It used to be all about location. Location was so important for aiding in satisfaction. Then it was it's not where you are, but who you're with. Any location can be wonderful if you're there with the person you want to be there with. Then it became, it's not who you're with, but who you are. The location can be ideal or not ideal, the person you're with can be great, but if you aren't settled in who you are, you can still muck everything up.
I love when I realize the obvious.